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Dear Manay Gina, I and my best friend are students in an advanced degree program. I’m about to finish, and she’s somewhat behind me, so I’ve started applying for jobs. The problem is my friend wants a job with a particular university, although she’s not currently in a position to apply for it. She has said that if I get a job there, she will not be able to, because our credentials... 

School Bullies

Dear Manay Gina, I learned that my 8-year old boy was a victim of bullying at school. He used to be an honor student but he suddenly lost interest in going to school. I admit he’s a little effeminate which might be the reason why he’s being teased. When I asked some children in my neighborhood, they told me that he was really being bullied at school. Now that the school is about to open, I want... 

Teen Sexting

Dear Manay Gina, I just read a heart-breaking article about a young girl, who attempted suicide after messaging a nude photo of herself to a boy she liked. The photo was distributed throughout her school and she was ostracized mercilessly because of that. Incoming search terms:teen suicide Read More »

Complacent BF

Dear Manay Gina, I’m very much in love with my bf. However, there’s a little problem, which I have told him but he can’t seem to understand. He’s 30, he has a job and very understanding, but he seldom spends one-on-one time with me. When he gets home, he goes to his friend’s house and drinks beer every night. He is not a sloppy drunk though or even gets drunk. He’s... 

Outgoing wife

Dear Manay Gina, I’m 26 years old, married, with a four-year old daughter. My problem is that my husband is so insecure that he is constantly questioning me about what I’m doing. I’m “not allowed” to have friends. If I talk to anyone, he thinks something is going on behind his back. I admit that I’m not totally innocent in this problem. Shortly after we were married, I got drunk, and... 

Red Light

Dear Manay Gina, For the last few months, my girlfriend and I have been having problems in our relationship. It has been mostly due to our age and inexperience with relationships. She said that she thinks I’m a great person and I’m everything that she could ever want in a boyfriend. However, she isn’t completely happy.  Read More »

Miserably Single

Dear Manay Gina, I am 24 years old and miserably single. Unfortunately, it shows when I meet someone new. In the past two years, I have been actively dating different people. Once I get close to someone, I think “this is it” and begin to pursue a commitment. When I start to do this, the man that I am seeing breaks it off and then I realize that I never had any control over the relationship.... 

Family Bond

Dear Manay Gina, My husband was asked to be in the wedding of her brother, but lately his brother has been very rude and unfriendly to him. The brother is angry because he thinks my husband and I should be doing more for their mother. My husband and I both work full time, and have our own house to take care of. I am also trying to finish my college studies. Their mother is neither elderly nor ill.... 

Wife Woes

Dear Manay Gina, My wife and I used to be very happy but things changed when my job moved us away from her family. As time went on, our relationship got worse and worse. She missed her family, we didn’t have any friends, and then I was laid off from my job. We always got to a point where someone couldn’t take it anymore. We would spend a few days apart and then agree to work things out.... 

Boyfriend Material

Dear Manay Gina, I’m a college graduate, in my early 20s. I have an OK job as well. However, there is no woman in my life. I meet all kinds of people and I am not a shy person at all. Many times, I have been complimented that I am such a catch. So, what must be the reason why I haven’t had a date in a long time? I am not looking for a girlfriend, just some fun. And if it develops into...