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The more (rounds) the merrier


BY RICA CRUZ


Dear Doc Rica,

My boyfriend recently took a work assignment na field work. Kaya ang nangyayari ay wala sya during the weekdays at nasa provinces. Nagkaroon kami ng agreement na hindi kami both magmamasturbate when we are apart para sabik na sabik kami kapag week­ends. At totoo namang grabe yung pagkasabik ko. Kaya nga kapag weekend kung pwede lang na sunud sunod at whole day lang kaming magsex. Pero mas one time big time kasi sya mag orgasm. Tapos kapag nagrecover na sya parang hindi ganun katigas na. So sisingit na lang kami ng isa pa the next day. Baka may way naman para fully loaded na sya agad and ready for round two. Patulong po. Salamat.

Tiger’s Eye


Hello, Tiger’s Eye!

Medyo challenging yan and sana safe sya with this pan­demic. Sabi nga nila, distance makes the heart grow fonder. This case, your sexual desire grows fonder habang hindi kayo magkasama especially dahil during the weekdays, both of you abstain from sexual activity. Understandable na during the weekend, magiging sabik kayo sa isa’t isa and mas magke-crave kayo for each other.

Ang mga kalalakihan ay may tinatawag na refractory period na kasunod ng pag orgasm. Dito, hindi nasi-stimulate o nage-ejaculate ang isang lala­ki. Hindi katulad ng mga babae na walang refractory period kaya pwedeng mastimulate agad after orgasm. Walang standard na waiting time until pwede na ulit. Nag-iiba ito sa bawat lalaki at usually mas humahaba ang waiting time kapag tumatanda. Meron ding iba na lumalambot ang penis kapag refractory period at meron ding matigas kahit na waiting pa.

Stress, Alcohol, Drugs, Sex­ual Interest at Positioning ang mga factors na nakaka-apekto sa haba ng refractory period na ito. Wag nyong itulad sa mga lumalabas sa mga porn movies na parang ready to go agad ang mga lalaki for round two dahil may kasama nang editing ito at hindi ito ganun ka-realistic.

Subukan ninyo na i-adress ang mga factors na nasabi ko and hopefully, magkakaroon kayo ng mas maiksing time in recovery and mas masusulit ninyo ang inyong weekends together. The more (rounds) the merrier. Always enjoy and be safe!

With Love and Lust,

Doc Rica

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Rica Cruz, PhD, RPsy is a Psy­chologist, Sex and Relationship Therapist and Sex Educator. She is a co-host of the program Feelings at OnePH Channel 1, and listen to her podcasts, Conservative Ako and The Sexy Minds. Follow her on Facebook.com/thesexymind or Insta­gram @_ricacruz.

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