Dear Manay Gina,
My fiance and I have been together for two years and have a baby on the way. We plan on getting married in a year. However, I learned that he was flirting with another woman in his work.
Now, I feel uncertain about getting married because many times in the past, he had been unfaithful but I always give him a second chance. Do you think I’m just wasting my time? Should I just move on?
Mely
Dear Mely,
Myths say weddings will tame men with a wandering eye and justify unplanned pregnancies.
But we’re living in a modern world. A happy home is built on trust, and it’s a necessary value for moving into a marital union.
Consider relationship counseling before any more wedding talks or possible breakups as the family issues need to be addressed. Whatever happens, establishing good early years with the baby should be a priority for both of you.
Affectionately,
Manay Gina
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“Trust, but verify.“ Ronald Reagan
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