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Unfaithful fiancé

Dear Manay Gina,

My fiance and I have been together for two years and have a baby on the way. We plan on getting married in a year. However, I learned that he was flirting with another woman in his work.

Now, I feel uncertain about getting married because many times in the past, he had been unfaithful but I always give him a second chance. Do you think I’m just wasting my time? Should I just move on?

Mely

Dear Mely,

Myths say weddings will tame men with a wandering eye and justify unplanned pregnancies.

But we’re living in a modern world. A happy home is built on trust, and it’s a necessary value for moving into a marital union.

Consider relationship counseling before any more wedding talks ­ or possible breakups ­ as the family issues need to be addressed. Whatever happens, establishing good early years with the baby should be a priority for both of you.

Affectionately,

Manay Gina

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“Trust, but verify.“ ­ Ronald Reagan

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